In my gray hair era
On the Go with Meesh

Beauty, gray hair confidence, and everyday moments… lived on the go

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This space

Hi, I’m Meesh ~

I’m embracing my natural gray hair and sharing life as it unfolds beyond the dye… beauty, confidence, midlife travel, and everyday moments that feel good right now.

This space is less about rules and reinvention, and more about showing up as I am… and letting that be enough.

✨ More than gray hair, this is simply a way of living… with ease, curiosity, and confidence in your own skin.

What I’m Sharing

Meesh homepage beyond the dye
Gray Hair Journey

From root grow-out to real self-acceptance, this is where I share the honest, everyday moments of going gray naturally. No pressure, no rules… just confidence building quietly over time.

Meesh with Subtl Beauty Stak
Beauty Over 50

Beauty that feels easy and lived-in. Makeup, skincare, and routines that work with gray hair and mature skin… unfussy, flexible, and grounded in real life.

Gray hair journey
Life Beyond the Dye

Life on the other side of root touch-ups. Travel, wellness, mindset shifts, and everyday freedom that came with letting go of the dye and choosing ease instead.

Lately

A few Favorites

A small collection of things I actually use and love… everyday pieces that make life feel simpler, more comfortable, and a little more me in my gray hair era.

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Working Together

I help businesses tell their story and grow their online presence through social media management, user-generated content, and thoughtful storytelling.

It’s grounded in real strategy, creativity, and experience… and shaped by a genuine connection to the people behind the brand.

Curious about what working together could look like? I’m always open to a conversation.

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Going gray comes with opinions. It challenges what we’ve been taught about beauty, aging, and what’s considered socially acceptable for women.

I stopped coloring my hair in October 2024 at 54, and every month since has felt more like me. That alone has been freeing ✨

Choosing gray means choosing confidence. It means deciding that comfort in your own skin matters more than approval.

And for me, that feels better than dyeing my hair black ever did. 🩶

Two weeks in using black shampoo, and I’m really glad I shared this. Your comments helped guide how I approached it, and I’m noticing subtle changes along the way, especially in how my grays are blending. I’ll check back in soon 🖤

Such a fun trend as I’m Filipina, with Japanese roots and deep island ties through my mom, who was born in Hawai‘i 🌺

I always love coming back here… where I lived as a kid, and where reconnecting with my mom’s family has made these trips feel even more meaningful 💞

Culture, confidence in my natural grays, and island style… my way 🤍

Grateful for where I come from and the stories that shaped me ✨

Wellness doesn’t have to be complicated. This stage of life has taught me that motivation comes from choosing what feels supportive, not punishing. I’m learning that caring for my body doesn’t require a perfect routine… just attention, patience, and a little grace 💞

Every month into this gray hair journey, I thought there was no way I’d make it this far. There were moments I wanted to quit, moments I questioned myself.

Sixteen months in, it finally feels comfortable. Not because my hair is perfect, but because I stayed. Somewhere along the way, this stopped feeling like a phase and started feeling like home.

I wouldn’t change a thing 🩶

I made a custom scent for my home and didn’t realize how calming the process would be ✨

Slowing down, paying attention to what I was drawn to, and creating something just for my space felt like such a small but grounding ritual.

Lately I’m choosing moments that feel intentional, personal, and supportive… especially at home 🕯️

My girls gifted me this experience for my birthday last December, which made the whole process feel extra personal.

And that’s how the scent came to be named C ❤️ C.